Read!! Why Older Rich Guys Will ALWAYS Want (And Get) Younger Women
I'm a matchmaker. I don't take on women as clients. My clients are
successful wealthy men who normally ask to be introduced to much
younger beautiful women.
Usually this is the part where older (read 40+) women accuse me of
being misogynistic. They claim that it is because of women like me,
who perpetuate this ugly reality, that older women cannot find men.
Some men agree.
Reality, however, is different. It may not be much kinder, but it is
different. The reason successful men prefer to date younger women is
because THEY CAN. Women are not attracted to youth. Women are
attracted to confidence and power.
So when a beautiful woman in her 20s or 30s meets a man who is in his
50s and has the world in the palm of his hand, that is s/xy and
alluring to her. His age becomes as irrelevant to her as last year's
fashion. All you have to do is walk into one of the numerous upscale
restaurants or clubs of New York City. All the young, drop-dead
gorgeous women accompanying older men were not dragged there by force;
I can assure you.
It almost becomes irrelevant to these men (or this story) whether
these young ladies are truly inloveor are merely out to make better
lives for themselves. What counts is that they are sitting across from
a woman who is beautiful, intelligent and alive. She won't complain
about her ex; she won't moan about how tired she is because she was
doing homework all day with three whining children, and then had to
prepare dinner and take the dog to the vet.
No. This woman is out to have a good time and then come home and have
wild and passionates/xon the kitchen counter or the bathroom floor.
Because she is young. And before some of you tell me about your strong
s/x drive after 40, consider this: Her 25-year-young spirit comes in a
shape of a 25-year-old coin-bounce-off-ass body.
So when the comparison is down-to-the-minute detail: She wins. Is it
fair? No. But hiding your head in the sand and insisting that "real
men" don't want younger women, they want an equals is naïve at best
and detrimental to your own love life at worst. When a man is
successful and wealthy, he wants a young vibrant woman whom he can
enjoy in bed and high society alike.
And another thing: No matter how old the man is, he still wants to go
out with a younger woman. I recently had a 78-year-old client who
wouldn't even consider a woman older than 50. If you are 25 years old
as you are reading this, let me put this in perspective: That would
bed likedatinga 55 year old.
That brings me to why I can't take on women as clients; and no,
misogyny has nothing to do with it. In this tough singles market, if a
man pays top dollar for a matchmaker, he expects nothing less than a
29 year old model. As a result, I cannot find a husband for a
47-year-old schoolteacher with two kids and three mortgages.
So where does it leave an average forty-something, relatively pretty
woman, who is young at heart (even with three kids and a dog and a
cat), and is looking for Mr. Right? Is she doomed to a life of
singledom and loneliness? Not necessarily.
There are a few resources I recommend:
1. Find a matchmaker that accepts women as clients.They will work for
you to produce the best results in minimum time.
2. Join hobby groups. No matter what your hobby, you can find a group
and meet people (read "men") that share your interests.
3. Get out of the house. Whether it's dinner withgirlfriendsor a quiet
evening by yourself at a local pub, GET OUT. You won't meet anyone
sitting at home and complaining about not being able to meet anyone.
As for me, my over-40 girlfriends and I will cry into our martinis,
lamenting this unjust man's world, and then I will go back to work
finding matches for clients whose ideal love is two generations
removed.
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