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A little boy who penned a best- selling book claiming that he ascended to heaven and met Jesus during a near death experience in 2004 is recanting his story, claiming that he made it up in an effort to seek attention.The startling admission from Alex Malarkey , whose story was told in the 2010 book "The Boy Who Came Back from Heaven," written by both him and his father, Kevin Malarkey, has led publisher Tyndale House to pull the text from print, NPR reported. The revelation emerged this week after Malarkey reportedly sent a letter to the Pen and Pulpit blog in which he pointedly admitted that the story was concocted. "I did not die. I did not go to Heaven. I said I went to heaven because I thought it would get me attention. When I made the claims that I did, I had never read the Bible," he wrote. "People have profited from lies, and continue to. They should read the Bible, which is enough. The Bible is the only source of truth. Anything written by man cannot be...

A pastor named Chris Onyekachi-Madu, 45, has told an Igando Customary Court to dissolve his 18-year marriage to his estranged wife, Augusta Madu, who got pregnant for an Okada man. He said he didn't love her anymore because she slept with an Okada man in his house, got pregnant and then packed out to start living with the Okada man. Madu, who resides at 1, Bola Kadiri Street in Egbeda area of Lagos State and a pastor at Victory in Christ Gospel Ministry, Egbeda, told the court how his 18 years marriage collapsed. Narrating his ordeal before the court, Madu said his wife, with whom he had two children, started fighting him on a daily basis while also bringing strange men into their home. He also told the court that since the crisis began, he started seeing strange faces in his house. He said: "They come to my house at about 11p.m. There was a day I had to interrogate a man that she brought home. She introduced him to me as her pastor." He said further that his wife brought...

Every man of God has certain qualities they find irresistible in a woman of God. Whether you are an unmarried man in need of discovering what you should look for in a wife, or a unmarried woman curious to know what qualities a man of God is searching for…this is for you! 1. A woman of God who values honor. A woman who fearlessly honors others, values herself. To honor someone means to esteem them or show high respect. A woman who demonstrates this reveals her heart for people. Honoring up, down, and around is the rule to follow. Honoring up means respecting those who are in authority over you, being able to accept their role and submit to their leadership. Honoring those below you includes those that look up to you, or work underneath you. Honoring those around you is respecting your friends, family, and colleagues. You know a woman who honors by the words she speaks to those closest to her. Finding the gold in someone is easy because they only desire to build that person up rather tha...

The Sun Newspaper on Saturday, January 17 2015, named renowned and award winning filmmaker,Kunle Afolayan'Nollywood Man of the Year'. The filmmaker received the award at the annual Sun Awards which held at theEko Hotels and suites.The Sun Awards is aimed at celebrating of 19 outstanding Nigerians. The 2015 edition of The Sun Awards was attended byKunle Afolayan, Tuface Idibia, Chika Ike, Don Jazzy, amongst others. Kunle has produced award winning movies like'October 1′, 'The Figurine', 'Irapada', and 'Phone Swap'.Congratulations to the Nollywood icon.

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A 60-year-old bachelor, named Segun Benson, has been accused of defiling a 14-year-old primary school pupil in the Agege area of Lagos State. Nigerian Headlines report: Segun, the only surviving child of his mother who has refused to be married, was said to have lured the girl into his room with N50 where he forcefully had a canal knowledge of her. Narrating her gory experience, the victim said, "I am in primary six. On Friday, he gave me N50 to buy sweet for myself. He then asked me to caress his private parts. When I told him I would tell my daddy, he said I should not go home. "He took me to his house around Railway Line where he defiled me. I was there from 3pm till around 7pm. I started bleeding from his house and when I got home the blood did not stop. But I kept it secret until Saturday when people saw it." The victim's mother, Taibat narrated how she found out. "I have seven kids and she is the third child. I was sleeping when people called me that my da...

Lagos governor Raji Fashola pictured dancing to Dorobucci during a campaign rally at Oworonshoki today.

A good relationship will surely keep you happy and healthy, and if that's what you have now, making it last longterm isn't rocket science—really. Scientists at the University of Illinois recently analyzed 45 studies and 12,273 reports on relationships and narrowed down their findings into five strategies for keeping the bond strong with your significant other. According to the pros, here are the best strategies to include in your relationship game plan: Clear the air: Talk about whatever's on your mind, even if it's just that you're annoyed she left her makeup all over the bathroom counter. Putting it off will only force you to bottle up emotions and that could lead to passive aggressive actions later on. Get happy: If you're pissed off, chances are your crappy mood will rub off on everyone around you, including your girlfriend. Sure, sometimes a bad mood is unavoidable, but do your best to stay positive… especially on date nights. Divide and conquer: Who knew t...

Below you can find a bit of the questions that I asked in this very in-depth, humorous, dating interview. 1. Full Name: You have to know who you are REALLY dating! No 'Catfish' this way! 2. Nickname: Does he/she have a street name or another alias? 3. Age: Don't assume you know a person's age by their looks, because the statement is true for African Americans; Black don't crack honey! 4. Height: If this is important for you, you may want to ask. This is very helpful for online dating. 5. Occupation: Share your career goals and dreams! You'd be amazed what you can find out. 6. Credit Score: Would you rather find out while dating or after marriage some unfortunate credit history? Surprisingly, people don't mind sharing this info! 7. Has a restraining order ever been filed against you? This will prevent you from waiting for red flags down the road. 8. Have you ever been married? This can open up for an interesting discussion! 9.Are you currently taking any medi...

If you thought that the only benefit of s/x was, well, pleasure, here's some news for you. Making love is good for adults. And making love regularly is even better. Not only does it help you sleep well, relieve stress and burn calories, there are also several other reasons why you need to have s/x more often. Improves cardiovascular health A recent study says that men who have s/x more than twice a week, have a lesser risk of getting a heart attack, than men who had s/x less than once a month. Increases immunity Regular lovemaking increases the level of the immune-boosting antibody immunoglobulin A (IgA), which in turn makes your body stronger against illnesses like the common cold and fever. Reduces stress Stressed out with work or family problems? Don't let it affect your performance in the bedroom. Not only will having s/x improve your mood, but a study has also proven that folks, who indulge in regular bedroom activities can handle stress better and are happier people. Reli...

(Sigh!) I can't believe I have to find love all over again. The idea of dating over 50 can come as a shock. You aresingleand in midlife, which was probably not part of your life plan. But "things" happen. Sometimes it's divorce, the passing of a spouse, or time creeping up until you realize you nevermarriedand might not get the chance. One thing I have noticed as adatingcoach for women is how many single gals in their 50's seemangryabout looking forlove. A variety of reasons create this anger and some despair, as well. Most women never thought they'd be single and dating over 50 which is certainly understandable. Surprisingly, some women don't even realize they are mad about this, but it sure gets in the way of finding love. Let me share seven of the most common reasons for feeling miffed about being over 50 and single AND what you can do about it: 1. I Wasted My Precious Youth on the Wrong Man.Maybe you left your husband or he left you. Either way, your l...

Slow down there. … Let's make sure you're really ready for a brand new relationship. How to get back out there in the dating sea of fishes after having ended a long-term relationship? When considering throwing yourself back into the pool, so many mixed emotions can arise. Feelings like fear and anxiety can stir up in you. We may not know where to start or if we're really ready. Here are some questions you need to ask yourself to figure out if you are ready forloveagain. Most importantly, this exercise will help you discover whether your heart has healed and if you feel excited and open to a new adventure with someone. Question #1: Are you sure that you are over your last partner? If we've not completely let go of the idea of our last relationship we cannot fully move on with the new. It's very important to check yourself to see that there are no lingering emotions about your last partner. You want to make sure you are completely you again and there are no lingering ...

Warning: This will seriously piss off most women and possibly some Guys. I'm a matchmaker. I don't take on women as clients. My clients are successful wealthy men who normally ask to be introduced to much younger beautiful women. Usually this is the part where older (read 40+) women accuse me of being misogynistic. They claim that it is because of women like me, who perpetuate this ugly reality, that older women cannot find men. Some men agree. Reality, however, is different. It may not be much kinder, but it is different. The reason successful men prefer to date younger women is because THEY CAN. Women are not attracted to youth. Women are attracted to confidence and power. So when a beautiful woman in her 20s or 30s meets a man who is in his 50s and has the world in the palm of his hand, that is s/xy and alluring to her. His age becomes as irrelevant to her as last year's fashion. All you have to do is walk into one of the numerous upscale restaurants or clubs of New York...

Note: this is for fun: may Death not be our portion in this New Year (Amen!!!) I love the thought of a New Year. I love the notion that the good, the bad and the ugly of the past year are behind me and I can start on a new slate. I love the energy of the first few days of the New year as I try to plan the year and luxuriate on the purity of my vast, virgin canvass. In many ways, it is like a new birth. Unfortunately, birth precedes death as surely as day precedes night. Since the way of nature is the way of life, then a New Year also serves to warn us of lurking death. Every New Year day means we are one year older—irrespective of what time of the year we are born—and thus nearer the grave. It also means, for those afraid of aging, an extra number they would rather do without. For the tardy and careless, it means time is running out on the things they have left undone. Many of these are illusions because life is a continuum really and there is no actual break either in the physical or ...

I have laughed out my belly read and enjoy. After church on Sunday, A wife saw her husband sitting quietly she decided to ask him,darling, "why re u so gentle?" He replied, "I'm still thinking about what the pastor said." Wife asked, "What is it?" He said, "the pastor confessed he slept with all married nd single women in d church but ONLY 1 woman didn't want to sleep with him." Wife replied "It must be tht Mrs Eunice! She tinks she is better than everyone." lolz! What will you do?

I get one new babe her name na Lovett, this girl fine die and on top her beauty na she Olamide sing for because she carry front and she carry back, anytime when I dey with her my body go just dey do me t*t*rey. Few days ago she say make I come her house come see her,she say if I reach make I talk to the gateman, if possible make I give am small money so that him go smuggle me enter inside her room, because the papa na retired army and him dey harsh well well for her matter. As I reach the house I come see the gateman for outside na him I go meet am, na old man him even be, he wear short nika and singlet when don tear and him hold news paper. Me:- bros well done o, I know say na you be gateman here, abeg lovett tell me say make I come see her, hope say she dey? Gateman:- yes, she is inside Me:- what of the useless papa?hope say e no dey Gateman:- yes Me:- abeg you go carry me go lovett room Gateman:- Okay, let's go in Me:- okay, but make I first buy condom for this shop when dey out...

How soon is too soon? Guys get honest with us about s*x on the first date. Times have changed, ladies, and with it, thedatingrules. We're embarking on a new kind of relationship and with it, a newer type of woman. But as all the traditional rules change, should thes*x? How soon is too soon — or is it okay to ask for it on the first night? We asked the dudes in our lives to dish on when they think it's appropriate to do the deed — and their answers, well, they'll surprise you. S*x Is A Yes, But The Type Of Woman Matters "I'm going to get so much sh*t for this," says Ben, 27, "but I've dated a lot of artists — and I've found that they're way more free-spirited when it comes to the s*xual aspects of a relationship. As a guy, there's something about being with someone who's so carefree — and it's something you feel immediately, so yes, s*x on the first night is okay … with the right woman. I don't feel likehaving s*xon the first ni...

It's all in the little things we do, each and every day. We all go through those days—we feel blah, tired, and anything but s*xy. It may bebody image, it may be exhaustion, work, stress, or just about anything —but s*xy is a state of mind, and sometimes, our mind just isn't there. Sometimes feeling s*xy is hard, but it doesn't have to be. We can be a goddess in the bedroom, and everywhere else. And we're going to feel smarter, s*xier and a whole lot more confident while we're at it. Feeling s*xy is not just about someone else thinking you are s*xy. It's about an inner confidence, how you carry yourself, and how you walk through every action of your day—from s*xy time to that sway of your hips as you walk down the street. Obviously, we have a lot going on other than playing the vixen, but we can still let our s*xy sense of self shine, in everything we do. It's all in the little things we do, each and every day. So sit back and flip through our 13 easy tips to...

"You're really nice and that scares me." Those were the words out of her mouth when I was driving her home from my parents house. I was 16 at the time, and she was one of the first girls that had shown interest in me. How can being nice scare someone? Shouldn't she be worried that I'm an axe murderer or hide bodies in the trunk of my car? Checking in on her, telling her how much I care for her and like her on the second date seemed to chivalrous and direct. How could I be wrong? I even went out and bought a whole new wardrobe that day because she mentioned she didn't like my shoes in an offhand comment the day before. "I just can't be with someone like you," she said. I couldn't breathe. "That's cool. I'm going to go out tonight to party. Peace." I thought thissinglecomment would show my edge and win her back, but she got out of the car and went inside. How dare a woman not like me for simply being who I am? I reached a turn...

Difference Most people into polyamory are way more open and honest about their needs. "My husband bought me a beautiful dress for my birthday and I went away for a trip to the mountains with myboyfriend," Tessa shared in one of our coaching sessions. Tessa is not cheating. Her husband knows about her boyfriend, and her boyfriend knows about her husband. Tessa is polyamorous and among a growing population who are insightful and bold enough to live out what works for them:non-exclusive, committedrelationships. There are stories of cheating partners abound: the religious politician caught with his pants down in a bathroom; the devoted wife found to have a cutie on the side. Most of us jump to condemnation and feel the stirrings of fear: What if my partner cheats? What if I have a wandering eye? Cheating destroys many a marriage; betrayal is devastating to the trust andintimacynecessary for long-term commitment. But, being with someone else doesn'thaveto be betrayal, or impac...

A Jaws Superfan dad named Joseph Reginella made this terrifying epic DIY bed for babies or small pets. He put his own son on the bed to sample it and from the looks of it, the lil man is terrified of the bed. I mean, who wants to sleep on a bed with the thoughts of being eaten alive by a shark? It's quite creative but would you put your child in a bed like this? See more photos after the cut...